boysordeath's Diaryland Diary ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- sex after more thought, it all seemed simple. but now i know. it is destructive to give more than you can afford to give. and as women, we have the tendency to want to do this, we want to give others what they need (nurture). problem is the man doesn't know what he needs always. we don't always either, but really, i caution women who might think it is a good idea to be pressured into something they are not comfortable with, that this will end up bad for both parties in the long run. the guy could be compartmentalizing his feelings for protection, and it is harder for us to do this. we take in all this energy of people we are with. here is a good way to get it out, go to this blog and scroll down to "sword technique for seven years": http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.ListAll&friendID=2973130 all and all i am just sayin' sex without a strong foundation/commitment really can hurt in a big way that you cannot even imagine before hand, regardless of your beliefs about it. don't give to people that you may be more serious about than they are with you. and if they say they are very serious, still, take things slow, because men lie not only to women but to themselves. yep! 10:42 p.m. - 2007-10-07 ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- |
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